I am disappointed. Extremely disappointed.
I always thought that when in a relationship, you learn from your partner and your partner learns from you. I’ve probably been living in my own idealistic bubble.
I thought opposites attract. I’m an extrovert, he’s an introvert, he listens, I talk.
Would it come a day when everything crashes? Would it come a day when he listens but doesnt do anything about it.
My friend said “Guys go into relationships hoping their partner wont change, girls go into relationships wanting their partner to be a changed person”
But think about it, the reason why girls often ask for change is because once guys enter the relationship, they cease to do what they did in order to ‘court’ the girl. They are no longer that caring, that sweet.
The boy who opens the door for you, now opens the door for himself, hopefully he swung it hard enough for you to go through without him holding it for you.
The boy who used to open your car door, now just unlocks the door on his side as now one button unlocks all 4 doors.
The boy who used to write you letters now send you 1-2 word smses.
The boy who said he’d give up the world for you, now expects you to give up the world for him.
Girls also dont want their guys to change. They dont want the sweet guy to change into the uncaring guy who doesnt care less anymore because they ‘got girlfriend already’.
Thats all I have to say.
